I actually wouldn't mind dating an overweight man but if he was obese I would be less attracted to him and I have to say an 'average' size man would be more attractive to me physically than a fat guy, all other things being equal.
It's funny what Liisi said about athletes getting fat when they stop training bcz they still eat the same as before. You'd think they would know better than anyone about nutrition but it's not always the case.
When I was Kickboxing competitively I was hungry all the time no matter how much I ate and I couldn't put weight if I tried, (sigh...). Then when I stopped competing (elbow injury of all things), I put loads of weight on. It was so depressing and it took me ages to lose the weight bcz I had just got into the habit of stuffing my face on a daily basis!
