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Please help i am really in love but the person i love dosent love me the way i love him. The thing is ever since i bought one of my friends though to my house he likes her but he has told my other lad friend that he likes her as well as he just eants to bed her as well and i know what this lad is capable of doing and the other lad friend of mine really likes me but i dont like him so i dont know what to do i really need some help on this one HOW TO WIN A HEART AND BE HAPPY i am really upset and depressed over this But i also know i this lad i really like if he went out with a girl that didnt want to have sex he would make her but i still like him but if he did i would really hate him for it and for who ever he did it to PLESE HELP. i dont think he would ever do that to me even though i really dont know that for sure.

HOW OLD ARE YOU ?

My advice would be to take a few steps back, a few deep breaths. If this lad only wants sex forget him and enjoy this lovely weather instead. Get out with your girlfriends and do some safe sunbathing instead.

Sorry to sound patronising/heartless but in a month or two you'll wonder what the fuss was all about.

OMG - here come the 'oldie' again, putting his 2p worth in (I remember when it used to be 2d too!)
Any 'boyfriend' who forces a girl to have sex should be shot - likewise any person who thinks it's cool to have underage sex. Why ruin what should be a pleasure just to be 'friends' with someone like that? Honestly, they are only after the one thing - as long as they get it they'll stick around for more. They'll probably have more than one 'girlfriend' and jump from bed to bed, spreading nasty little bugs as they do that.
Don't start thinking it's 'love', you'll know when it really is love - rather than just sex. And probably not even 'good' sex at that!
As you grow older you'll look back on the whole thing and wonder what you ever saw in him - why you let him push you around and dictate what you can do etc.
But, then again, nobody takes any notice at that age - they just do what they want and then realise it was not right when they have kids of their own! Then they try telling their kids...

i am 15 its not fair its been a few months now and he wont listeren to me i need to forget about him but its hard to do that about some one you love i am tryin to find someone that loves me the way i love them in sted of me just likeing them he wont even talk to me ever since this girl has come she is soposed to be a friend but she has forgot about me totally. [/quote]

Ladysatan163,
You are only 15. You have the whole of the rest of your life to find love. Why waste your effort on someone who won't appreciate you. At 15 we all think we fall in love, but in reality it's just a big crush. Believe me, no trust me, you WILL find someone. Also, trust me on this, you will come out a far better person if you can just step back and say "Oh well, if all he wants is sex, his loss." Trust me. You will earn more respect that way. You will also be a more attractive person. As Dizzy Bint says, in a couple of months you'll be over him. We've all been there.

thank you all of you for your help if you lot want to talk to me at any time if you need a laugh email me.

That's right chill out ... life is worth more. Enjoy it while you're young!

i try to enjoy but its hard no friends no one to talk to i am nnice and every thing but no one talks to me/

Ladysatan, what you need is friends who are there for you. That is worth so much more than any boy you will happen to fall for.

Your 15, ad trying not to sound patronising but, you really should be out enjoying your teenage years with mates, rather than throwing them away on a boy.....and trust me boys your age all are not worth while!!...boys are mentaly and emotionaly unstable from 14 -17 lol.

Friend will give you more satisfaction and support and love than any boyfriend you have. At your age its very easy to think you have fallen in love, but trust me, its not love. Think of it as a crush and remember any boy who has admitted that he wants to go out with someone just so he can have sex, and is willing to try and force them is nothing more than an idiot and a borderline rapist. You are worth more than that.

I second that emotion!Take care Ladysatan

...get over him, move on.....you're too young to be
getting stressed out, over some immature muppet, who obviously
doesn't respect you.

cheers mates

Why dont you try telling him how u feel and if he does not respond u will know it was not meant 2 b. Remeber theres plenty more fish in the sea.