I am sorry you lot but I love fireworks - must be the kid in me - I love Bonfire Night, the smell of winter in the air, getting all wrapped up warm and standing outside to watch the display. I don't agree with people chucking them around for fun - I think organised displays are harmless.
As for Halloween, I don't like the concept of trick or treating, it wasn't the thing when I was little, it seemed to come in later through American influence and I know people who live alone find it quite threatening to have people in masks banging on their doors. However, Halloween itself is not a problem, it is just fun - when I was growing up we had parties each year, nothing sinister - just apple dunking and eating jelly mostly
That is why tonight my children are having some little friends around to play games and have a buffet... but not going trick or treating.
I suppose my answer is that both times for me represent the oncoming winter and are fun nights - the problem starts when people take them too seriously or disregard the feelings of others eg.. throwing fireworks or intimidating old people.
Can I get off my soap box now?
