Jezi it isn't you and you haven't caused any offence. Sometimes something that start off as a laugh can end up with peolpe getting hurt. I know in the past other people have been hurt by things like this. This is not to have a go at anybody at all it is just the way things go sometimes. I personally felt that things could get unpleasant as there was an opportunity for people to make subtle remarks about others and then it all gets out of hand. Like I say I am happy for people to pm me about it if they want to or more is probably the case pm each other about me
Can I just add that being a mod isn't always easy and we are doing our best.
Like I say Jezi please don't worry as you haven't done anything wrong, infact no one has really it just had potential.