HC wrote:
Chad wrote:
The only problem I would have I can't stand people who have children for the sake of it because it's the thing to do after they have got the husband, the nice house and car, then they try and get someone esle to look after the children until they are 18 then they leave home to go to uni, this mabye very exaggerated but alot of people have children without thought and consquence to how it will change you life completely!
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I think the decision to have children is a bit more than about it being 'the thing to do' imo. Sorry chad but I completely disagree with what you are saying. It is such a massive sweeping generalisation about peoples decisions to become parents and I for one do not want to be included in your judgements as to how and when people decide to have a child. I can't believe people are being so uptight about Britney having a child and are already judging what type of mother she will be when she maybe a fantastic one. Why can't people just be pleased for her?

I have been a Nanny so I see it from the other side not everyone is like that, that they only have children because they think it's the thing to do after marriage and often they couldn't careless about the children and left for other people to bring up, I certainly know a few family's like that, I have come across in my career, and it's the one's that have far too much money for sense they a child because it's only the next stage than actually thinking it through.