BBoop wrote:
If I hear once more ''I'm doing this for my kids'' err is that the 2 remaining of the 5 you had that aren't in care? What about the victims she mugged to feed her drug habit? I'm all for people wanting to make a fresh start but I still think it's being flouted a bit. Sorry I just don't get it and I don't think I ever will.

I have an opinion on this.
I find Rachel's manner irritating at times - and heaven knows, she doesn't seem very well equipped to cope with disappointment on the X-Factor (mind you, Cheryl wasn't able to say anything following Laura's exit).
Yes, it's wearing to hear 'I'm doing this for my kids' - but perhaps it's a strong motivation for her. I feel a bit uneasy about it, though - the inference seems to be that if she gets knocked out of X-Factor, she will have let down her kids. I would think the children would benefit more for love and attention that from having a famous mum, a phenomenally successful mum, or a more comfortable lifestyle.
But Rachel's not the only one who is possibly playing the 'sympathy card' on that show.
Moving on to the victims she mugged to feed her drug habit - well, this is my opinion. I gather that any junkie will do anything to feed that habit, if their problem is serious enough. Steal from their mother, target the weak and the vulnerable - of course it stinks. Celebrities and the very well-off may never need to steal to feed their habit, but even rich kids have caused heartache for their families - stopping at nothing to get what they want.
The Daily Mirror ran a report on a man whose late wife had been mugged by Rachel. The man said he doesn't bear a grudge now, and Rachel said she'd never tried to hide her past, and is very remorseful, and apologised to the man.
I can't imagine what it must be like to be well-known, and know that people know you stooped so low in the past. It can't be pleasant, but I suppose that's the price you pay for your actions.
Yet, I'm not comfortable with the way the press provide this information for us. I greatly admire those who say they don't bear a grudge. But I also think that's really the ONLY way to go, in these situations. Given that Rachel has been clean for a long while, and has two children living with her, I think it's important to draw a line under the past, and give her another chance. I'm guessing the Social Services are of the opinion that the elder children may not benefit from living with Rachel, and/or that Rachel wouldn't be able to cope adequately, caring for all five children.
I think it'd be a far worse world, if we don't forgive, if there isn't at least some 'grace' given to those who have messed up in the past.
(True grace is radical - it isn't something that's 'deserved', and the idea is that you forgive someone BEFORE they even are sorry! I'm not going that far in this instance - but Rachel has said she's sorry..)
I have no doubt that if I'd got addicted like Rachel, and was in her situation, I would have done awful things too - possibly even have mugged an old lady. It's a truly horrible thought - and of course I'd like to think that I wouldn't be that bad - but given the statistics about desperate drug-abusers, I can't see how I'd be stronger than anyone else.
I would hope that my 'strength' would have been displayed, much earlier on, and I'd have never got involved in drugs in the first place. Certainly, that would be my biggest wish for my own children - that they'd never get mixed up in that stuff.
I could go on and say I'd probably had a better childhood than Rachel, and that gives me an advantage, when it comes to resisting peer pressure, and avoiding making daft choices - but then, there are kids who come from lovely families who end up as junkies, and equally kids who come from horrendous backgrounds who act heroically.
I just think that if this world is to get better, there has to be some 'grace' dispensed.
Sometimes real 'sh!ts' can turn their lives around, and end up being fantastic people, who enrich the world. I don't know if Rachel has it in her, to cope with fame and other pressures, but I can't hold her past against her at this stage.