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PostPosted: 07 Dec 08, 10:55 
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EXCLUSIVE: Gran says 'Kidnapping was the best thing to ever happen to Shannon'
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Another hopeless mother slips through the net

By Janet Street-Porter


Found guilty of kidnapping her own daughter in an attempt to grab a huge ransom, she's been vilified, called lazy, sex mad, and a devious liar. Everyone has an opinion about Karen Matthews, the failed mother who seems to embody all that's wrong with our benefits culture. A pick-and-mix family, kids by a handful of men. Some kids with dads she can't even remember shagging. But is Karen the embodiment of evil? Last week another shocking example of motherhood was in court, Carmen Briscoe-Mitchell, the woman who abused her daughter Constance so badly the young girl turned her memories of a bleak childhood into a best-selling book, Ugly. Carmen claimed it was a pack of lies and sued her daughter for libel. She lost the case.

That both Carmen and Karen were dreadful mothers is beyond any doubt. But evil? Take a look at the case of academic Sally Adams, the fiftysomething singleton who is so desperate to be a mother she has advertised for a sperm donor – but he must be an intellectual who has attended either Oxford or Cambridge. I don't deny any woman the right to long for a child, but Ms Adams has relegated the role of a father to the level of sperm supplier with a high IQ and no more. In this respect, I can't see how she's all that different from Karen Matthews, albeit aiming for a better gene pool. Carmen Briscoe-Mitchell produced 11 children, and when Constance's father disappeared, her mother did nothing when the new stepdad started to treat her cruelly.

In all of this there is a thread: men aren't really seen as fundamental to a balanced family life. The mothers make the rules and run what is laughingly called a "home" in their own bizarre way. Normal standards of behaviour don't apply. In the Baby P case, the little boy's mother was completely in the thrall of her new boyfriend, immune to the cruelty he inflicted on her son. Baby's P's mother and Karen Matthews spent their days in similar fashion. Karen would send her kids to school for their breakfast – she didn't cook. Baby P's mother and Karen whiled away their time watching daytime telly and scanning the internet. Most of their benefits went on booze and cigarettes. During the school holidays Karen dosed her daughter Shannon with tranquillisers to make her easier to handle. Her sister claims that she even taped a plastic bag to one baby's bottom in order to save money on nappies.

We seem to have become a society where officials are so scared of demonising mothers that they come up with euphemistic language to describe wilful neglect. One report said that Karen would "require constant monitoring and support throughout the lives of her children" – but still she went on breeding and taping bin bags to their little backsides.

A new study claims that as many as one in 10 children is abused. That abuse might not be physical. It could just be emotional deprivation. Even allowing for a woolly definition of abuse, it's clear that a lot of women have a very damaged relationship with their offspring. Breaking the cycle of poor parenting is difficult. Bad mums aren't a product of the benefits culture; they've been around for ever. What's astonishing is that we stand by and let them flourish, when we're supposed to be the caring society with so many support systems in place.
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PostPosted: 07 Dec 08, 12:01 
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Why Karen Matthews really offended the middle classes
The media consistently fail to understand that cruelty, unlike poverty, has nothing to do with class



By Barbara Ellen


It would be nigh on impossible to defend Karen Matthews, convicted last week with Michael Donovan of kidnapping her nine-year-old daughter Shannon. Still, there are things she shouldn't be attacked for. I grew a bit weary hearing about the rundown state of her Dewsbury home, the many boyfriends, her lazy, grasping 'welfare lifestyle' - all that slobbing out and chain-smoking in front of the television and the computer.

It was cruelty that set Matthews apart, not poverty. When her neighbours were contacting social services, they weren't reporting Matthews for being poor or on benefits; they were reporting her because they were anxious about the appalling way she treated her children. Here were people who instinctively understood, in a way that many areas of the media never seem to, that cruelty, unlike poverty, has naff all to do with class.

Interesting, then, how we keep hearing about how this case 'shone a light on underclass Britain', as if all poor people are running amok, drugging, starving and kidnapping their children, tethering them with nooses, hiding them inside divans.

If a light was shone anywhere, it seems to me to have been in an entirely different direction, namely at chattering-class Britain and its confused, self-conscious, essentially guilty reaction to Karen Matthews.

You'd have thought that the McCanns (Matthews's supposed 'inspiration') were as complicated as it was going to get with British love-hate attitudes towards child abduction cases. What a media baked Alaska that was - managing to blow hot and cold at the same time. However, even the McCanns didn't inspire the embarrassed liberal fidgeting, the jittery, ethical self-monitoring that Matthews seemed to.

First, there was the somewhat underpowered reaction to Shannon's disappearance; then the guilt about this lack of interest, leading to a kind of self-flagellating media blitz; this was followed by another bout of strangely muted outrage at the revelation that Karen had after all been responsible; finally, a distinct atmosphere of 'Let's move on'. It was almost as if the Matthews family and, indeed, areas such as Dewsbury are simply too depressing to contemplate for too long, not to mention unsettling.

What has polite society's reaction to Karen Matthews been if not a series of Russian dolls, all emerging one after the other, until finally you get to see what you are left with - a big, steaming pile of suppressed, angst-ridden, chattering class guilt.

Isn't this what has truly been illuminated here? Not the Shameless scenes of the underclass, but, rather, the 'shamed' middle class, people who probably disliked Matthews right from the start, mainly because she was badly dressed, inarticulate, had seven children by five different fathers, dragged her hair back in a scrunchie and smoked like the proverbial chimney. Admit it, Karen Matthews was automatically judged as decidedly non-U. How many would have felt like this, but because of Matthews's class, didn't dare admit it, even to themselves? Instead, they suppressed their feelings in a blur of woolly, worthy dithering.

By contrast, working-class reactions have been relatively straightforward: sympathy for a desperate woman, swiftly turning to disgust when the crime was discovered. Certainly, it seems telling that it was one of Matthews's 'chavvy' friends who, sitting in a car with Matthews and a police liaison officer, had the courage to confront her and force her to confess to what she'd done.

Would the middle classes, muzzled by their self-consciousness, handcuffed by their instinctive aversion to Matthews, have dared raise the possibility of her guilt in a public forum, as so many did, so many times, in the case of the articulate, attractive middle-class (and therefore OK to attack?) McCanns? Probably not

In this way, Karen Matthews has been strangely successful. Not in swindling £50,000 out of the Sun - which to Karen may have constituted the ultimate scratch-card win. Her success was in flushing out a particular form of middle-class moral insularity and its stunted twin, self-loathing. While Karen Matthews was found guilty of a very serious crime, in a funny way, the shame became all of ours.
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 Post subject: Re: Search underway for missing Nine-year-old girl
PostPosted: 07 Dec 08, 19:35 
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Evil Shannon mum gets a job

EVIL mum Karen Matthews has her first ever job — as a cleaner in prison.

The benefits-scrounging slob and had never done a day’s work before in her life.

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 Post subject: Re: Search underway for missing Nine-year-old girl
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Matthews is not pure evil

DESPITE what has been written about Karen Matthews, she’s not pure evil.

She’s just a horribly unbalanced, misguided person.

Evil is a word to describe murderous dictators such as Hitler, Pol Pot, Mao Tse-tung and Stalin.

Matthews didn’t kill anybody. She just wanted to make easy cash with a ridiculous, ill-thought-out scheme.

Her plot to kidnap her daughter Shannon was inspired by the hunt for Madeleine McCann. Her choice as accomplice was Michael Donovan, who is educationally subnormal.

Matthews is no brain surgeon herself, and one of the main surprises is how long it took before Shannon was found.

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 Post subject: Re: Search underway for missing Nine-year-old girl
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For Shannon's sake, let's keep interfering

Television would not make up Karen Matthews but it made up a lot of her life.

She is the very unfunny Vicky Pollard.





The kidnapping of her own daughter was falsely rumoured to have been inspired by Shameless, but that show has warmth and wit as well as criminality and despair.

Matthews didn’t and spent her life watching Jeremy Kyle or her partner playing on his Xbox. In private, we presume, he watched child porn.


Lies: Karen Matthews, who was found guilty of the kidnap and false imprisonment of her daughter Shannon this week, has become a poster girl for a broken Britain

Her lies, her play-acting, her looks, the neglect of her own children speak only of hopelessness and detachment.

She is now the grim poster girl for broken Britain, a life gormlessly lived on benefits, producing children that are in turn treated as goods to be bartered.

We speak often of the commodification of childhood but this case shows that, for some, children really are commodities.

I mention TV because the coverage given to the McCann case seems to have been the inspiration for the kidnap plot for which Matthews and Michael Donovan have been convicted.

Now there will be even more time for them to watch TV in solitary confinement in prison.



There will be another inquiry but if it ends up as yet more witch-hunting of hapless social workers, I see little point.

Pinning blame on individual failure does not change a system that is not fit for purpose.

We already know social workers get it wrong.

This is not to excuse them but the armchair justice meted out on the back of recent appalling child-abuse cases is self-serving.

Just as there are no-go areas for police in some cities, there are no-go areas for health visitors, midwives and social workers. Shall we arm them?

There are a class of people on drugs, in debt and despair.

We can argue about whose fault that is but we cannot deny their existence or their capacity to reproduce.

Twenty-five years ago almost three-quarters of those who lived in council housing worked full-time.

Now fewer than a third do.

The Right argues that the welfare system itself has produced this culture of worklessness and an underclass dependent on benefits with children drugged on Ritalin or, in poor Shannon’s case, anything that would keep her quiet.

Those howling about this situation are the same people who demand less ‘State interference’ in family life while asking why such children are not removed.

Removed to where exactly?

The statistics for what happens to children who grow up in care are pretty bleak. Most social workers aim to keep families together for this very reason.

By coincidence, when I was young I used to work with children in care for Haringey Social Services.

Even children who had been severely abused would cry every night because they wanted to go home.

These things are not as simple as they are made out to be.

Karen Matthews could not put the needs of her kids above her own. This is not so unusual.

This narrative of community breakdown is not new. Fred and Rosemary West had neighbours, remember?

People knew that there were a lot of odd goings-on in their house. No one stopped them.

We now live in a culture of technological surveillance and CCTV cameras which further prevents us from keeping an actual eye out for each other. Someone else can step in.

For kids like Shannon we have to ask the tough question: Do we want the State to interfere more?

The uncomfortable answer is Yes.

It is better that teachers ask why kids are dopey, that doctors ask innocent parents about children’s injuries, that we get suspicious when youngsters draw pictures with explicit sexual content.

Social services are not equipped to deal with what they are meant to deal with.

The increasing inequality in this country now means that many now live in a metaphorically gated community with the barbarians at the gates, their children abandoned.

We don’t need another inquiry to tell us we require an overhaul of social services.

We just need the political guts to do it. Whether we call it the State or society, someone has to intervene in the lives of children like Shannon.

Because we know what happens when they don’t.
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 Post subject: Re: Search underway for missing Nine-year-old girl
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DAVID CAMERON: There are 5 million people on benefits in Britain. How do we stop them turning into Karen Matthews?
On the third anniversary of taking office, the Tory leader launches a trenchant attack on 'our broken society'

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COMIC CARR SORRY AT 'ICON KAREN' GAG


SHAMED Alan Carr has been forced to make a grovelling apology after the Daily Star confronted him over a sick gag calling evil Karen Matthews a ‘gay icon’.

Carr shocked fans with an offensive British Comedy Award tribute to the scum mum who kidnapped daughter Shannon, 10, for cash.

Our reporter approached the funnyman after his Jonathan Ross-style gaffe and at first he was defiant.

Carr, 32, admitted he was drunk at the Saturday night do but told our reporter: “I always think of Karen. Who gives a f**k?” He then dashed to watch his TV pal Justin Lee Collins, 34, in a Mexican wrestling show in Camden, north London.

But after a storm of protest Carr last night apologised, saying: “I realise what I said about Karen Matthews was insensitive. I’m sorry for any offence this may have caused.”

Jonathan Ross, 48, is suspended and Russell Brand, 33, quit BBC Radio 2 after making offensive phone calls to comedy giant Andrew Sachs, 78.

Gay comedian Carr made his shock comments after winning Best Comedy Entertainment Personality.

Talking backstage, he said: “I didn’t have time to prepare a speech because I didn’t know I was going to win.

“If I’d had time to prepare something I think I would have had to have mentioned Karen Matthews because I’m obsessed with her.

“I have got a new laptop and at the top of my search engine is that cat woman, Jocelyn Wildenstein, and Karen
Matthews. As far as I’m concerned she’s an icon for gays.

“Everyone loves a bit of rough, so I’d have to dedicate my award to Karen Matthews.”

Last night Shalid Malik, Labour MP for Matthews’ home town of Dewsbury, West Yorks, said: “That’s one of the sickest things I have heard in recent times. The timing couldn’t be worse.

“I believe in freedom of speech and I believe comedians should do whatever they can for material.

“But for this, Alan Carr should be ashamed.”

Family values campaigner Dr Adrian Rogers said: “Comedians are competing to see who can lower the standards most. It has got to the lowest of the low.”

Matthews, 33, and Michael Donovan, 40, are waiting to be sentenced .

Carr recently signed a £3million Channel 4 deal and plans a show called Rough Women Vs Hard Men. He said Karen would be “a dream guest”.
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 Post subject: Re: Search underway for missing Nine-year-old girl
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Shannon's mother, a culture of greed and why we must abolish child benefit
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Jade: Shannon mum should die
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I do feel pity Karen... but only for taxpayers
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Shannon uncle in manacles

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BUG-EYED beast Michael Donovan gets a taste of his own medicine yesterday as he is restrained by handcuffs and a chain.

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Matthews jailed for eight years for 'despicable' Shannon kidnap

Karen Matthews has been jailed for eight years for her role in the kidnap of her nine-year-old daughter Shannon in February last year.

Her former partner's uncle, Michael Donovan, 40, was convicted of the same offences and was also jailed today for eight years.

The judge, Mr Justice McCombe, said: "The offences that you committed were truly despicable.

"It is impossible to conceive how you could have found it in you to put this young girl through the ordeal that you inflicted upon her.

"It is incomprehensible that you could have permitted your friends, neighbours and in your case, Matthews, even your children to sacrifice time and energy in extensive searches for the supposedly missing child."

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Karen Matthews and her lover's uncle didn't stage Shannon kidnap alone, says judge as he jails them for eight years

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Haunted Shannon: Schoolgirl's nightmares revealed as her mother is jailed for eight years for kidnap plot

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